He Does not Want a Relationship! Here Is Some Bitter But Truthful Advice for You

I am sure you have been sitting there in deep thought trying to figure out how you can get your man to finally have a relationship with you.

But so far, I am guessing you have not had much luck right? Let me start off with some bitter truth for you – Almost every man out there who says he does not want a relationship will actually get into a relationship at some point in his life. That's a guarantee.

But the person he will be into a relationship with may or may not be you. You see when a guy says that he does not want a relationship what he is indirectly saying is that he does not want a relationship with you. Let's discuss this in a bit more detail …

If he wants a relationship with you, there would not be any excuses …

If he has a clear mind and really wants a relationship with you then no excuse in the world will be big enough to stop him. And at the same time if he is unclear and is not sure about whether he really wants a relationship with you or not then every excuse will seem really big.

When a guy starts looking for more excuses on to be with you instead of looking for reasons to be with you then its really obvious that he does not want a relationship with you.

But what if he changes his mind?

Well, we have already established that if a guy really wants to be with you, he will not make any excuses.

But I am sure now you are wondering, well what if he finally changes his mind and is ready for a relationship? Well I would like to ask you – When do you feel that time would come?

If he is not ready for it right now, when do you feel he is ever going to be ready? And at the same time how long are you actually willing to wait? How long are you willing to handle the confusion, pain and frustration of not knowing when he is going to finally make up his mind?

If things are not getting better, they 're only getting worse …

In the process of thinking that maybe he might change his mind some day many women just stick around anyway and let things run the way they are running.

But do you know what actually happens in the process? Things actually end up getting worse. When you want a relationship but he does not, you have two people with completely different goals. Therefore you will push him towards your goal and he will try to push you towards his. And in the process you will only experience more arguments, disagreements and frustration. Eventually you will realize that he is not going to change his mind and is always going to be confused about you.

And that would be the time when you will feel the need to let him go.

Always remember that …

You can not change his mind, or persuade him into wanting a relationship with you …

And the sooner you get this the better it's going to be for you. Do not sit around thinking that some day you will be able to convince him to want a relationship with you. If he is scared of a relationship right now, what makes you say that he will be less scared in the future?

You can not make him want a relationship and at the same time you can not convince or persuade him either. It just will not work, and the harder you will try, the more distant he will get from you.

So what do I do now?

So what can you do? Do you really have two many options? Here are two things you can do –

– Stick around and hope he will change his mind.


– Let him go on good terms.

I would suggest that it will be better to let him go momentarily. Because if he really wants you; then he will come back for sure.

But if he does not, then you were with the wrong person to begin with. Always remember – There is another person out there who will be more than happy to be with you. So go find that person instead of wasting the precious moments of your life waiting for someone who does not even want a relationship.

Points to remember –

– If he does not want a relationship then he is indirectly saying that he does not want a relationship with you. He is not saying he does not want a relationship at all because some day he will be in a relationship with someone else for sure.

– Do not wait for him to change his mind about you, if he has not made up his mind already, what is he really waiting for?

– Cut him off and let him miss you. Let him know that you are not going to sit around and wait for him if he is not ready for a relationship. If he can not make up his mind about you, then let him know that you can not make up your mind about him either.

Source by Scarlet Hall

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