"I wish I knew how to make my husband desire me again." Does that sound like something you've been thinking recently? If you have, you're not alone. Many marriages become stale after a few years and the wife ends up feeling as though her husband does not even notice when she's in the room. It's frustrating to be in this situation because as much as you love your husband, it's hard not to become disappointed in him when he starts neglecting your needs. Obviously, you can just sit back and hope that he'll suddenly snap out of it and start paying more attention to you, or you can take matters into your own hands. Getting him to want you again is not nearly as difficult as you might think. With the right insight you can not only recapture his interest, but you can ensure he loves you more than he ever has before.
There's an old saying that familiarity breeds contempt and that can be said for many marriages. When you become very comfortable with a person you often start pushing their needs aside. Wives are just as guilty of this as husbands and that's something you should be considering. Take an honest look at how you've been treating your spouse recently. Have you been as loving and attentive as you were in the earlier days of your relationship? If you have not, you may not realize that your husband may just be unconsciously mimicking your behavior. Many men do this without intending to. When their wife stops paying them attention, they stop paying it back. It's a cycle that's really easy to break though. Start changing that dynamic right now by doing things for your husband that you know he appreciates. Show him just how important he is to you by treating him to things like his favorite meal or tickets to his favorite sports team. He'll love that you put in the effort and it will make him want to do the same for you.
Being a little mysterious may seem a bit out of place when you're married, but it can actually make your husband desire you again. It's no secret that when a couple is dating, it's wise for the woman to play a little hard to get. Obviously, your husband already has you but you can still use some of those same principles to get him to want you more. Start chasing some of your own dreams and show him that you're still a vibrant, productive woman. He'll love that you are out doing your own thing as it shows that you value yourself. Do not share every small detail of what you've been up to. It will keep him guessing and that drives men, even husbands, wild with desire.