I love the fact that I can text my boyfriend whatever I want and whenever I want, irrespective of the place and time. I use dirty texts to get him in the zone. The good thing is I do not have to work so hard. I just text him a few dirty lines to get things heated up.
If you want to know how to talk dirty to your boyfriend, all you have to do is learn how to play with his mind to get him thinking about sex. The most surprising thing that's common with nearly all men is that they are easily swayed into thinking about sex. Try these tips, and you will be amazed.
Know what his trigger lines are … You have to know which words work for your boyfriend and which ones do not. For instance, my boyfriend does not have a problem when I use the word "dick" to refer to his manhood. However, my best friend's boyfriend has issues with the word, but is quite comfortable with the word penis.
The journey to arousing your man with dirty texts starts with using the right words. Of course, when you're starting out you will make some mistakes, but you can easily tell what he likes and what he does not by the way he replies. If the reply is not what you're expecting, then the dirty line did not work for him.
Let him know how aroused you are … There's a texting game I play with my boyfriend often, and it works like magic. When I want to have sex with my boyfriend, I start by sending him a cheeky dirty text in the morning. We chat all day, about a lot of things and I keep reminding him that I'm still horny.
If you want to learn how to talk dirty to your boyfriend and be good at it, you have to keep updating him on your arousal. By doing so, you're increasing his anticipation. My boyfriend rips my clothes off when we meet after a long day of dirty texting. It's needless for me to say what followed thereafter.
Take it easy … There are times when I used to feel so pressured when talking dirty to my boyfriend. Little did I know that there was no need to feel the pressure, after all he is my boyfriend. Likewise, you do not have to try so hard to impress your man with dirty text messages.
In fact, the harder you try, the less likely that you will impress him. Stay relaxed, let the lines flow naturally, be original and do not push yourself too hard in the quest to impress your man. Like mention earlier on, it's relatively easy to sway a man into thinking about sex. Just a few dirty lines and soon he will follow suit.
Flirt with him over and over … Men like to flirt. If you do not think so, try telling your man that you love his biceps, height, lips or even hair color, and you will know what I mean. If you've just started learning how to talk dirty to your boyfriend, you should start by flirting with him. Of course, he will flirt back, but the best thing is to take charge of the conversation to put him right where you want him to be. Use smileys and send pictures to trigger his mind into thinking in a dirty way.
One of the tricks I use on my boyfriend is sending him a picture of my thigh or cleavage just to tease him. Needless to say, he reacts by sending me a naughty picture of himself, a fact that stirs my sexual senses as well.
We can not run away from the fact that phones are here to stay. In fact, you should use your phone to spice up your relationship and by extension your sex life by sending your man dirty text messages. Just like anything else, the more you do it, the better you become.