Sometimes you may wonder if you are dating or married to the right guy. What once was a wild passionate romance has turned into a day by day hum drum existence. Getting that romance back does not take as much as you may think to rekindle the dying flame of romantic love and intimacy.
Women hold the key to what their relationship becomes. It is up to them to keep their finger on the pulse and keep it on track. I know what you are thinking. "Why should I have to do the work". It is because your man really does not know how. If he did not have romantic parents or someone to teach him, how would he have learned? So ladies, if you want a romantic and exciting relationship, there a many things that you can do to relight his fire. Here are a few of the many suggestions that when implemented will create a more loving environment for your relationship to grow.
Your man must feel special, like he is the most important person in your life. If you are not making him feel special some other woman will. Often times a man will stray when he no longer feels like he means that much to you anymore. The next woman that gives him attention will get his attention. So just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you should even think about letting yourself image falter. Be the woman he fell in love with and nothing less. So a note for the guys, the same is true for women. When your woman shows you love and appreciation you must let her know how special she is to you.
All men have a little boy locked up inside of him that longs to come out and play. No matter how successful or how strong he may be, he waits for permission to have fun with the little girl inside of you. It makes him feel happy when you can make him laugh and enjoy the playful little boy that wants to loosen up outside of the demands the outside world has of him. It may be tough at first but it is important to learn how to let that child inside of you out.
A common mistake that women make in their relationships is that they send mixed messages to their men. Remember that a man will take what you say literally. So if you tell them that you should not exchange a gift at your anniversary or other occasion, do not get him one and expect him to have one for you. Because most likely he will not. Do not say one thing and mean something else. Men are not mind readers any more than women are. Do not ever think "They should have known" Your man will not have the faintest idea what you want unless you tell him.